I come from a LARGE Italian wedding. To make a long story short I don't fit in with them at all. I am not having the traditional wedding at the Catholic church, with the traditional food, at the traditional spot...etc etc etc.So I figured the least I could do is include some cousins into the wedding party, that way my Nona would actually show up. Well here's the thing. One of my cousins,well call her G, is well, anoying as hell. Not only does she normally know everything about everything, but she has been two wedding since I got engaged, and is now the self proclaimed wedding guru. She never has anything nice to say about the wedding, my ideas, my fiance, the dress, the colors, it could all be better "if you just...why don't you... shouldn't do it like this... that color really isn't you...are you sure you want to go through with this?" And on top of that she thin ks the wedding is for her, she doesn't think the bridesmaid dress looks good on her, so she doesn't think thats the one they should wear, or "maybe she could just pick out something different for herself, one that suits her better "I think the princess gown look is the best for my body type".. I'm going to cancel this weddin all together...What the ehck do I do. Can I tell her that I don't want her to be in the wedding anymore? Can I tell her I don't want her included in the gown fitting, bacherlette party, bridal shower, anything really but standing up at the aisle to make Nona happy.She is the only decision I am regretting in regards to this wedding.... grr