So I work with a girl who I am pretty good friends with outside of work so I planned on inviting her and sent her a save the date. She has a boyfriend who I never like, expressed that to her but then got over it and figured its her life ya know. I planned on inviting him too and was going to put his name on the invite (did not on STD, because they are on and off all the time). Recently…sh*t hit the fan! She got pregnant, he ditched her, told her he wanted a paternity test, etc, she found him in bed with another girl, other things that are worse that you can not imagine. Meanwhile, I am still keeping quiet cause I know if I say something that I will eventually look like the bad guy when if they get back together, but am being there for her listening and stuff. They end up back together and all is well (in her messed up fantasy world). Then last week she miscarries, and he tells her she was never pregnant in the first place, she is a liar, blah blah blah. She is a mess, he is nowhere to be found…a real jerk. So at this point I pretty much went off and told her exactly what I think of him, he is a con artist, does not care about her (background- illegal immigrant who uses her for car, money and house) is never going to marry her or be there for her and she is too good for him.
So now they are fine again! And she obvi told him everything I said which I don’t care cause I hate his guts. But how do I handle seeing this person when I have to and more so do I invite him to our wedding? My FI hates him too (in the past we had a housewarming party, he came and was wasted by 2pm, got sick all over our house and FI is a cop so is not sympathetic to illegals). I think if I am ever around this person its going to take everything I have not to give him a piece of my mind for treating my friend like that.