Good Evening?

barrelbabe004

Ya I've been around forever and my only online fb friends are from my club board.  I wouldn't mind being friends with people on here but it's not until here recently that I've really started posting regularly again.

PetalPockets2012

Did anyone else feel bad for DJ when they saw another thread with her name again today? I know I did.

mari0225

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_good-evening-22?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:ac72986b-060b-41cc-b921-794a9d5201b5Post:853ae3f6-d80b-4b0f-b8d5-4cbdaefaa164">Re: Good Evening?</a>:
[QUOTE]Did anyone else feel bad for DJ when they saw another thread with her name again today? I know I did.
Posted by PetalPockets2012[/QUOTE]

Yes, I wish they would give her a break. She is so nice!

musicalsunlight

Yeah it definitely did. One of the posters put some of her Bpics in a thread and I seriously DO NOT UNDERSTAND THAT. I mean, I don't get it in any context, but ESPECIALLY with people you just "met". When I had bpics, I had a password protected site that I only gave the password to knotties that I felt ok with seeing it on my local board. Some people asked for it and I didn't give it to them because I didn't feel comfortable with it.

mkrupar

Here's the thing I said it before I believe. When you create a board for a bunch of women who want to "be accepted because they don't feel accepted on other boards" then there's going to be instant cliquishness (is that a word?) because they're now the supposed mean girls. That shiit that someone said to Anna about "Oh no....they didn't have sample dresses in a size 4?" WTF was that? (That's in the crazy long thread.) Like so now Anna can be persecuted because she's NOT plus sized. Way to make her feel like you all say you felt on other boards.

kcscejal

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_good-evening-22?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:ac72986b-060b-41cc-b921-794a9d5201b5Post:4273ec15-84be-473c-86ff-3efcf82e82a1">Re: Good Evening?</a>:
[QUOTE]Ya I've been around forever and my only online fb friends are from my club board.  I wouldn't mind being friends with people on here but it's not until here recently that I've really started posting regularly again.
Posted by barrelbabe004[/QUOTE]
But you did SS!  I can't cyber stalk you, but I might come to your house.  <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-tongue-out.gif" border="0" alt="Tongue out" title="Tongue out" />

musicalsunlight

Also? I haven't gotten through the whole huge DJ thread yet but I am totally hoping for a Nugget sighting with at least one "heifer" comment. I'm a bitch.

PetalPockets2012

I would never to ask to see someone's b-pics especially of I didn't know them. Creepy. I feel like I'm a creeper or something when I PM people sometimes. I don't want people to think that since I ask them a question about themselves.

Loopyseven

I never put any of my b-pics on the web. 

I don't understand all the drama.  What's the point?

MyUserName1

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_good-evening-22?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:ac72986b-060b-41cc-b921-794a9d5201b5Post:620cf1fd-470f-40b9-8bac-482ab03a329e">Re: Good Evening?</a>:
[QUOTE]Here's the thing I said it before I believe. When you create a board for a bunch of women who want to "be accepted because they don't feel accepted on other boards" then there's going to be instant cliquishness (is that a word?) because they're now the supposed mean girls. That shiit that someone said to Anna about "Oh no....they didn't have sample dresses in a size 4?" WTF was that? (That's in the crazy long thread.) Like so now Anna can be persecuted because she's NOT plus sized. Way to make her feel like you all say you felt on other boards.
Posted by mkrupar[/QUOTE]

<div>That PISSED me off too.</div><div>
</div><div>And then someone was complaining that not all of the stores at the mall carry her size.  Guess what, not all of the stores in the mall carry my size either.  It isn't that big of a deal.  </div>

kcscejal

I actually like seeing bpics, but I don't think I'd ever ask anyone if I could see theres, nor do I think they're a wise thing to post on a public forum.

Megbo2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_good-evening-22?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:ac72986b-060b-41cc-b921-794a9d5201b5Post:620cf1fd-470f-40b9-8bac-482ab03a329e">Re: Good Evening?</a>:
[QUOTE]Here's the thing I said it before I believe. When you create a board for a bunch of women who want to "be accepted because they don't feel accepted on other boards" then there's going to be instant cliquishness (is that a word?) because they're now the supposed mean girls. <strong>That shiit that someone said to Anna about "Oh no....they didn't have sample dresses in a size 4?" WTF was that? </strong>(That's in the crazy long thread.) Like so now Anna can be persecuted because she's NOT plus sized. Way to make her feel like you all say you felt on other boards.
Posted by mkrupar[/QUOTE]

<div>I wished the thread was active at that point when I read. Because I was getting REALLY irritated.  </div><div>
</div><div>"Being clamped in a dress and not really being able to see how it would fit is WAY better than having to squeeze into a dress or not fit at all!" Anddd you know this because you were both a smaller sized bride and then a PS bride and experienced both? Oh wait you didn't.  This is classic grass is always greener...</div><div>
</div><div>And wait til you get to the point where one is complaining about how LDY said she was excited because she met a weight loss goal and was no longer technically plus sized because THAT was saying SHE (random poster) should change.  But then Steph? Said she couldn't be both pissed/complain about being PS and also say that...</div><div>
</div><div>I know too much.  </div>

musicalsunlight

My bpics were on the web only on the company's website that I used. They were on a private online viewing gallery for me (much like photogs do for wedding pics). I am fairly certain the gallery is deleted now since it usually only stays for like a month or something. So I'm not worried about it. I wouldn't ever upload them myself online.

MyUserName1

That was outrageous too.

And people say the E board is mean...

Loopyseven

Exactly Jally.

mari0225

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_good-evening-22?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:ac72986b-060b-41cc-b921-794a9d5201b5Post:beb6380a-f0fd-4e1e-a550-26a3ce77f4cf">Re: Good Evening?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Good Evening? : I wished the thread was active at that point when I read. Because I was getting REALLY irritated.   "Being clamped in a dress and not really being able to see how it would fit is WAY better than having to squeeze into a dress or not fit at all!" Anddd you know this because you were both a smaller sized bride and then a PS bride and experienced both? Oh wait you didn't.  This is classic grass is always greener... And wait til you get to the point where one is complaining about how LDY said she was excited because she met a weight loss goal and was no longer technically plus sized because THAT was saying SHE (random poster) should change.  But then Steph? Said she couldn't be both pissed/complain about being PS and also say that... I know too much.  
Posted by Megbo2012[/QUOTE]

Ugh that was awful! Like she shouldn't be proud? That's an awesome accomplishment!!! I would love to get under 200!

tortis

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_good-evening-22?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:ac72986b-060b-41cc-b921-794a9d5201b5Post:79f6ff05-e79f-468a-876d-4d5dded633de">Re: Good Evening?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Good Evening? : Ha, tortis, don't feel bad. Check the page before your post. I had already dropped hate on the new older Lily.
Posted by kalpi108[/QUOTE]

<div>Oh good. She's a little kid so I felt mean.</div>

musicalsunlight

I'm pretty sure if I were that girl's FI, I'd be SO pissed to see them posted ANYWHERE online publicly. I know J would flip his shiit if I had my bpics just posted on a thread.

mari0225

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_good-evening-22?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:ac72986b-060b-41cc-b921-794a9d5201b5Post:ffaaff67-96b1-423b-8e43-5560e990e653">Re: Good Evening?</a>:
[QUOTE]I'm pretty sure if I were that girl's FI, I'd be SO pissed to see them posted ANYWHERE online publicly. I know J would flip his shiit if I had my bpics just posted on a thread.
Posted by musicalsunlight[/QUOTE]

Mine too! I would have kept them private and only showed them to close friends that I was comfortable with seeing them.

musicalsunlight

I feel like if TK had the "view count" thing like TN & TB, people would think twice about posting stuff like that. Because holy shiit can you imagine the view count on that? Creepy.

Megbo2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Good Evening? : Ugh that was awful! Like she shouldn't be proud? That's an awesome accomplishment!!! I would love to get under 200!
Posted by mari0225[/QUOTE]

<div>And then everyone was saying "I didn't know! Congratulations." But someone had a problem which caused her to gain weight and was mad when someone posted "Fix it or shut up" about the weight thing because you don't know my situation!  I'm not condoning anything, but it's just really hypocritical that they jumped on LDY when they "didn't know."</div><div>
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Megbo2012

MuSu I remember the view count on TN thread for E when TK was wonky.  200 posts, 2000 views. 

mari0225

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_good-evening-22?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:ac72986b-060b-41cc-b921-794a9d5201b5Post:c399a4cb-7fa3-494a-8a48-fb5435fedfd5">Re: Good Evening?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Good Evening? : And then everyone was saying "I didn't know! Congratulations." But someone had a problem which caused her to gain weight and was mad when someone posted "Fix it or shut up" about the weight thing because you don't know my situation!  I'm not condoning anything, but it's just really hypocritical that they jumped on LDY when they "didn't know."
Posted by Megbo2012[/QUOTE]

I know it was! Just nuts!

Nickivegan

Storage Wars and homemade hot chocolate (almond milk, vanilla, sugar and of course chocolate!) time! See ya in a bit.

Loopyseven

I find the views count on TN kind of creepy.  I'm sure it's similar here but not seeing it makes me feel better .

Megbo2012

Agree, Loopy! Maybe if people close the window every time, it would make sense and not be super creepy?

I think the fact that I didn't post on PS until today, yet knew all that speaks volumes about how we don't know who reads this! It doesn't take much to make an account.

kalpi108

I don't know if you guys have moved on from this but Amethyst repeating "that's the definition of a ban" over and over was annoying holy hell out of me and was pretty passive aggressive towards DJ in the first page thread. Gah so. Much. Drama.

Loopyseven

You don't even need an account to read, only to post.

andy71781

Hey there bishes.  What is going on?

musicalsunlight

Its creepy but it makes sense. I'm sure we would have lots of view counts here for all the lurkers of other boards plus just random lurkers that never post anywhere.