Uninvited to a wedding

Lisa50

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_uninvited-wedding?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:bae680e1-d821-4755-9310-94936f73b8d2Post:8712df26-89ad-4ca8-a39e-60a9e158a705">Re: Uninvited to a wedding</a>:
[QUOTE]Send them a gift -- a jar with a really pretty lid and add a note to the card that says "Congratuations on your marriage -- this jar is for your husband's balls!"
Posted by zitiqueen[/QUOTE]

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SparrowSong

Wow.

Seriously, I would be tempted to email him and say, "We spent .... on airfare and .... on hotel." Thanks for paying us back since we are no longer welcome.

I would also make it clear this effectively ends your friendship.

Unbelievable. Just when you think you've heard it all, people find new ways to be unbelievably rude, selfish idiots.

whifflegirl

I would have sent him an email saying good luck in a marriage full of insecurity and lack of trust.  He's basically saying that even with either of them telling each other that a relationship had been totally platonic, that the other one wouldn't trust that to be the truth. 

Not the kind of relationship I'd want to be in.

tallgrl30

Update:  He just had his bachelor party this past weekend...so he has not called me yet.  If he knows me as well as he thinks he does...he knows I'll be nice first, but "a talk" will be coming his way.  It's weird.  As much as I want to talk to him and let him know how hurtful this was, another part of me doesn't even want to talk to him.