I am having my ceremony and wedding in two different locations. They are about 25 - 30 minutes from each other. My mother seems to think I should write on the invitation "Family and close friends in attendance only". She doesn't think that we should inconvenience our out of towners. I think we should word of mouth tell people they are more than welcome to come to both but they may skip the ceremony if it's too much traveling. What am I supposed to do? Do I just invite everyone to both and not say anything or do I write something on the invitation that the ceremony is for friends and close family? Is anyone else having this problem? Thanks any help is appreciated.
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[QUOTE]I am having my ceremony and wedding in two different locations. They are about 25 - 30 minutes from each other. My mother seems to think I should write on the invitation "Family and close friends in attendance only". <strong>She doesn't think that we should inconvenience our out of towners</strong>. I think we should word of mouth tell people they are more than welcome to come to both but they may skip the ceremony if it's too much traveling. What am I supposed to do? Do I just invite everyone to both and not say anything or do I write something on the invitation that the ceremony is for friends and close family? Is anyone else having this problem? Thanks any help is appreciated.
Posted by nicoleeichelberger[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>I can say there is no way I would travel from OOT if I thought I was just invited to the reception. If people want to skip the ceremony due to the travel, they will, you don't need to spread that it would be OK if they did that by word of mouth. I would leave what your mom wants off the invitation.
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Everything the light touches is my kingdom.
Also, wouldn't you feel terrible if a good friend didn't go to the ceremony because she was afraid she wasn't close enough to make the cut of what you were defining as a close friend?
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[QUOTE]Everyone should be invited to everything. If you don't invite the out of towners to the wedding, they would be doing all that traveling just for a dinner party. Presumably they are making the trip because they want to see you and your FI get married.
Posted by Liatris2010[/QUOTE]
This. <div>
</div><div>Plus, if you're wanting to give them the option to come to both, or either one if you put "family and close friends in attendance" will most likely discourage them from coming.</div>