Hi Everyone! I'm new here. Joined awhile back, have gotten a ton of inspiration from everyone's beautiful weddings and I sit here thinking to myself, I need to know what these ladies would do...I know this happens all the time and I'm not the only one who goes through this, I'm just not sure how to respond to this, if I should respond at all?
FI and I are paying for our wedding ourselves, we decided that unless someone has a significant other(boyfriend, girlfriend, spouse) they did not get a +1. I know some pepole say thats not right, but we did what we could afford...and we had both been invited to weddings previously solo bc we were single and were not offended!
We have gotten multiple rsvps with +1s even though they werent invited with one. We're not sure if we should put our foot down and call these people and say we're sorry but we can't accomodate you? Or just let it go and try to enjoy the last two weeks left. We're still a little under budget which is nice, but there are now 10 extra guests that we have to pay for...if it was one or two people doing it, wouldnt be so bad...but its 10 cousins that have all done it, all in their early 20s. (I am too by the way!)
Is it best to just keep our mouths shut because we are under budget so we can essentially afford it? I just think its rude to impose on people, and not even ask first if its ok! But I don't want to be rude in and tell them they cant bring a date, even though they werent invited with one in the first place!