Ok, not so much etiquette, but I don't know if I'm nuts or not. The bride in this situation, who is marrying my brother, has little intention on her wedding day to do anything other than get married, eat, and get sh!tfaced drunk. Am I way out of line for reminding her that she may not want to get wasted, since she a) will want to remember the day, b) probably doesn't want the entire family to see her drunk c) it's not a kegger...
Example, I asked her why she wanted to be smashed on the night of her wedding, and she responded "Because it's a party? And I'm 25. That's what we do?"
Am I way out of line, or old (I'm only 29!), or boring for thinking this is totally immature and ridiculous. I understand wanting to have a blast with your friends/family, but setting out to get wasted intentionally sounds pathetic to me... thoughts?
Praying for a miracle!