I am sure this sounds horrible from the Subject line, but it had to be done. One of my fiance's best friends was asked to be a groomsman in our wedding. I get along with him, but his wife on the other hand, well let's just say we are not best friends... not even close. We have had our differences, and I tried to extend an olive branch back in January to smooth things over, but she pretty much threw it back in my face. this past weekend, my fiance and i attended a wedding where this groomsman and his wife were also guests. lucky for me, we all were seated at the same table. at one point during the night, my fiance approach the wife and said he wanted things to be fine between us and she said it was not going to happen. at that point in time, even though i do not like this woman and she clearly does not like me, i was going to still invite her to the wedding because her husband was in our wedding party. as the night went on, the tension between this woman and myself grew and grew, even though we did not exchange words. at the end of the evening, my fiance and I left the wedding a little early and as we were leaving this woman yelled the C-Word at me. I cannot make this up. my fiance even heard it. at that point my fiance and i decided that we could not invite her to our wedding. if she is going to yell such an offensive word to me at her own friend's wedding, what would she do to me at mine? my fiance called his friend the next day and told him that his wife would not be invited, and as a result his friend said he could not be in the wedding. the whole thing is a mess, but I felt that there was no way we could now invite this woman. guests are supposed to be happy for the bride and groom on the day of their wedding, and not wish either of them ill will. would other brides have done the same thing? blah...
