My Fiance's step dad has 3 children (about our age) that we don't really get along with so they are not coming to the wedding.
My mom's fiance has 2 sons (about our age) who we see on occasion. I told my mom that since these other kids weren't invited, it's probably not acceptable to have his sons either. She has since offered to pay for them to come because she thinks it will bring her fiance's family into our family....
Can't my mom just invite her FI's sons to her own wedding? (I'd love to say this but won't...she's been engaged for 3 years and hasn't set a date yet so I feel like she's been using my wedding as a chance for her to have a second wedding)