Wedding Etiquette Forum

questions...

The first one requires a bit of a story, so here it goes.  My aunt put my mother on the spot at a family gathering and asked her if my cousin *her granddaughter, who is 16) could bring her boyfriend to the wedding.  Now my FI and I were not going to let anybody under the age of 18 have a guest because he has a lot of family members between the ages of 15-17 and if they were allowed to bring guests it would just become too much, and we are already over our initial amount as it is.  Well my mom being the nice woman that she is felt she couldn't say no so she told my aunt it was okay.  So now I sent the invites out last week and I was not going to send my cousin a separate invite with his name on it so I sent an invite to the entire family.  So now my aunt sent me a letter that I received yesterday that said "could you please send my granddaughter an invite with her and her boyfriend's name on it, and I understand if you're short on invites so here's mine to send her," and she enclosed the invite I sent her.  Any thoughts?

Not really a question here just have to vent..:)my FMIL refuses to send us back her response card because she told my FI she wants to save a stamp!!! We put stamps on all of the response envelopes!! My FI told her to please send the card back due to the fact that the stamp is already on there and she got mad at him and said "I'll send the whole damn invite back!"

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