What to expect?

mari0225

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_what-to-expect?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:ec734c64-d1d9-4d89-a501-f7cde01cb267Post:c84ca2b8-e644-4cbc-86e3-fc16c55d5498">Re: What to expect?</a>:
[QUOTE]I retract my post for being upset with my MOH earlier.  I want to go throw my arms around her and thank her for being as wonderful as she is!!!! 
Posted by North8[/QUOTE]

Yeah this really puts things in perspective.

North8

Just when you think you have problems, Life has a funny way of making you take a second look

courtski2004

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_what-to-expect?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:ec734c64-d1d9-4d89-a501-f7cde01cb267Post:a53d4f32-169d-42b1-95c7-70b0e7e046e0">Re: What to expect?</a>:
[QUOTE]You all are AWFUL! I have come back as a new poster and I should be treated as such! NOT have my past indiscretions put on blast!!!
Posted by KLastmanisBack[/QUOTE]

Ok, I'll play with you. Regardless of who you are and the restraining orders that may or may not be in place against you, you were kicked out of the wedding party. That means that the bride has decided that you will not be a part of her day and your duties as MOH have been revoked. There is no need to think about purchasing a dress, planning a shower or bach party, saving the date or buying a gift. You should probably take some time to reflect on your actions which caused your dismissal and come to terms with it.

If you didn't want your past transgressions to be 'put on blast' don't make it so obvious for everyone to connect the dots, cray.

J&K10910

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: What to expect? : Ok, I'll play with you. Regardless of who you are and the restraining orders that may or may not be in place against you, you were kicked out of the wedding party. That means that the bride has decided that you will not be a part of her day and your duties as MOH have been revoked. There is no need to think about purchasing a dress, planning a shower or bach party, saving the date or buying a gift. <strong>You should probably take some time to reflect on your actions which caused your dismissal and come to terms with it. </strong>If you didn't want your past transgressions to be 'put on blast' don't make it so obvious for everyone to connect the dots, cray.
Posted by courtski2004[/QUOTE]

I don't know why, but the bolded me lol for real.

Meegles4

Veggie, I officially think this is MUD too, including the "bride" when she came back. This is all just too convenient and to freakin' weird.

Legu

I'm actually going with real here... It's possible one saw the other on the site and decided to join too. To miss cray cray... The bride is well aware that any sort of "demotion" or kicking out or whatever is a friendship ending move. She did it anyway. That should really tell you everything you need to know, but, as you are a little cray, I'ma put it here for you anyway. You need to back the fuuck off and let her get on with her life. Take some time to become normal, get some new friends, and deal with the fact that this girl is out of your life. Get it?

lauraanne9

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_what-to-expect?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:ec734c64-d1d9-4d89-a501-f7cde01cb267Post:a53d4f32-169d-42b1-95c7-70b0e7e046e0">Re: What to expect?</a>:
[QUOTE]You all are AWFUL! I have come back as a new poster and I should be treated as such! NOT have my past indiscretions put on blast!!!
Posted by KLastmanisBack[/QUOTE]

<div>This is a horrible defense.  You are a new poster BECAUSE you knew there were past indiscretions.</div>

frantastic12

I'm going with real, because honestly, I'm surprised that this kind of stuff doesn't happen more often (MOH/BM talks about a bride on TK, the the bride comes across the post or vice versa). 

OP, please stay away from the bride.  Let it go, and consider seeking professional help.