Ok so j's ex called in Nov. wanting her old wedding ring back. He had already sold it as they have been divorced for around 6 years( they do not have kids together). In Feb. She called the week after we got engaged to inform him she was getting remarried. She calls is mother on a regular basis. We ran into her once in town when we were first together, and he didn't introduce me at all, then later when I told him that was rude he called and told her, and she said she didn't care who I was anyway. We have been together for three years now, and have had little contact with her until Nov. Now she is everywhere. It is two weeks till our wedding and she called to tell him she is pregnant and ask about our wedding. I'm very unhappy about this. I feel his mom may have told her that I want a baby but I may not be able to have one, and it's like she's rubbing my nose in it. I don't see why she is suddenly calling everyone. She caused the breakup. Things ended very badly. She has a new husband and a baby on the way. Am I being childish for wanting her to go away? As far as i see they have no reasons to talk. I don't question him, I know he is faithful, but as they say I don't trust her. I'm already having problems with my soon to be SIL, how do I handle this? Am I wrong for thinking it is wrong?