FI and I are not living together before the wedding. This is mostly due to his parents' stance on the issue, which I understand. We are in the process of building a home which will be ready about one month before the wedding.
FI's family is now planning on coming out a week and a half before the wedding, as compared to the couple of days prior as they had originally planned. We have offered to let his parents/sister stay at our new home since there is such a financial burden in them traveling here (plus they are throwing us a reception back east a month later).
To be honest, we were planning on staying together in the new house in the few weeks leading up to the wedding (I know, shady) and I was going to go stay at my mom's the couple days before. Logistically it just made sense, our apartment leases will be up and we figure the family will not know if we live together for a couple of weeks. All of our joint stuff will be moved in no matter which route we take, mostly because I don't want to come home from a honeymoon and have to immediately move.
Am I being psycho for feeling a little annoyed by being displaced for over a week now? Part of it is that I'll still be working for the first few days they are here. Of course I'm going to suck it up because I love FI and his family, but I feel like this is added stress on top of an already stressful time! I suggested either FI or I staying in a guest room so that I could be in my own home, but even that is a no-no.
Sorry, this was long winded.