My MOG has always been pushy in our relationship and childrearing and now she is trying to take over the wedding. She was in mexico when we decided to get married (we have been engaged for years but didnt decide on a date till thanksgiving) and she didnt return until January. Were getting married april 21. This past month she has called me MANY times trying to change our colors, the clothes I picked out for the kids, even the RING me and my f picked out for him together. And she keeps telling my f that im taking my parents ideas but none of hers (may i add that my parents are paying for most of the wedding and me and my f are covering the rest) Were having a small cermony of 30 people (95 % family) and she keeps inviting her friends then being mad at me when i explain to her (again and again and again) that we have a 30 person max in our budget and we didnt invite many of our own friends so they cant come. i dont know how to get her back off but i now dread answering my phone. i know she is his mom and all but most of the decisions were made while she was gone and didnt want to pay international phone prices to talk about the wedding... any suggestions with getting her to just accept our choices and just be happy were getting married?