So, need some advice here. Yesterday, FI drove up to his work to get the oil changed in my car and all that good stuff. Well while he was there, one of his co-workers, we'll call her C, asked him when our wedding was, and when he told her, she said, Oh well I haven't gotten an invite yet. So he said, well our reception venue only holds 75 people, so our guest list is very limited, and she responded with, well we (her and her bf) were already planning on attending, so I hope we are getting an invite.
Then, last night, we went to my cousin's birthday cookout (she also works with FI), and C and her boyfriend were there, and I was talking to another friend about the wedding and stuff, and C walked up and said, Are you inviting us to the wedding, I was just wondering since I hadn't gotten an invitation yet. And I said well the wedding is 3 months away, most people don't send out invitations that early. And she said, oh, so we are invited then? And I said, well our guest list is limited at 75 people, FI didn't get to invite alot of close friends from work (as a hint that, if he didn't invite the people he's closest to there, then why would he invite you?) And she said, oh, well we were already making plans to come down there for the wedding. I didn't respond with anything, and my other friend who was standing there didn't either. Then C said, I guess it's rude to ask someone if you are being invited to their wedding huh? And my friend said, umm yeah, just a little bit.
So a little background information, C is really not one of my favorite people, mainly because the first time I met her, it was at FI's Christmas party the year before last, it was our 2nd date. She walked up behind him and groped him!!! I front of me and her date everyone else! I don't mean she grabbed his butt, I mean something else! So ever since then, I haven't really talked to her or been friendly with her, because I thought what she did was really rude. It was awhile ago, but I guess I hold grudges.
So now FI is wondering if we should add her to the guest list since she asked if she was going to be invited... I really could care less if she's there and we really can't add anyone else, our list is already over the 75 limit because we know some people that aren't coming etc.
So, what do you guys think? I just feel like she can just get over it... and if her feelings are hurt then it's kind of her own fault for asking if she was invited... but I do understand that FI works with her everyday, and I don't want anything to be awkward for him after the wedding.