So three hours and 7 stops later I made most of the big changes. Just have to do the credit cards and stuff. It was fairly painless and I wanted to share the following:
If you lease your car, DMV will not change your name on your registration without Power of Attorney papers from the bank. I didn't know this and have to go back.
I had LASIK last year and wanted to remove the corrective lens thing from my license. I brought the receipt but didn't know you have to get your eyes checked there until I was at the end of the line. Ask first!
And the best is.... NJ is now a NO TEETH/NO SMILE state. That's right; no teeth or smiling allowed on your license or passport. I find this hilarious. We are a state of unhappy people I guess!