introduction...

bereasonable2

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_new-jersey_introduction-10?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:90Discussion:b75ae945-fe95-4a83-9066-b930069da658Post:64f0b036-7fb7-4492-b8e2-48d374850a9d">Re: introduction...</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: introduction... : BOOOOO!!! Come on....don't leave!!!!   LOL
Posted by goaliegirl[/QUOTE]

I don't plan on leaving of my own free will.  LOL  I'll just try to keep my "vendorly" tendencies to a minimum.

michelle221

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_new-jersey_introduction-10?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:90Discussion:b75ae945-fe95-4a83-9066-b930069da658Post:b96f90fb-b987-4684-9b2a-2dba61629c39">Re: introduction...</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: introduction... : Thanks smw42. =)   I try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt. Bereasonable is putting up one hell of a defense to prove he's not a vendor. Can't say that I think a professional would go through all of this just for some business. I say lay off the guy. He could be just a regular guy that is over thinking the engagement/wedding process which could come from nervousness and a little bit of insecurity.  Let's face it, not all guys have the predisposition of a romantic/sensitive side that can come up with all the ideas on his own. I'm a guy and I pride myself on being well rounded but that's because I was comfortable enough in my own skin to allow myself to be vulnerable and do things outside the normal "man" box.
Posted by Pharo47[/QUOTE]
I agree with you totally on this and we should try not to assume unless we have solid evidence that he may be a vendor.. Let's welcome Bereasonable and not judge him just because he's doing things alittle backwards. I'm no longer engaged, yet I visit this board frequently to share my ideas and get great advice/recommendations for my future. So let's not mandate that he get engaged first to join our forum. Hey, he deserves some recognition for creating a post that triggered over 60 posts!  Welcome!