I have a question about thank you cards (TY). I was just looking on the September 2010 page. There is a huge post, with many responses, about guests not bringing a gift to the wedding. Man did those girls get all bent out of shape b/c of not receiving a gift.
That doesn't bother me. I'm sure I've attended weddings during my college days when I didn't bring a gift.
Did you send TY cards to everyone who came to your wedding? Or just to those who sent/brought a gift?
I found this on Martha's website "Write thank-you notes for all the gifts you received at the wedding and before. Traditional etiquette gives you an 8-week grace period."