Advice needed about FMIL -- pronto!
We are planning our wedding in our hometown, about 3 hrs from Chicago, so timelines and to do lists for when I go home are a must. I recently emailed my FMIL to let her know a weekend we'll be coming home in April to do our reception food tasting along with some other items. She later sent me a text asking what time the tasting was since she forgot...well I never told her the time because I wasn't planning on her coming! Is there a way to politely explain that we really just want it to be my parents, FI, and me since we're the ones paying? Or for the sake of our relationship should I have my FI's parents come along too?