I decided to buy a long line bra and see if it would change how my dress fit, all I can say is WOW! it was worth the cost and more, "the girls" are up where they belong (for a 40+ women that is a good thing) and it gives me a more defined waist. Love it! I feel even more confident in my dress. I can not wait for my FI too see me in my dress, he's going to love it.