We have a total of 12 people who would need to sit at the head table (that includes us). Any ideas on the best layout? We are traditional enough to want the long head table, but that seems weird for 12 people - you'll really only get to talk to the people on either side of you. I know we will be up and about most of the night and only sitting for dinner, but what about the bridal party? Our coordinator suggested a 12 person round table, but we definitely don't like that - too crowded and backs to the room. We also don't really want to do a sweetheart because we want to be with our bridal party. Any suggestions??