I was reading some posts on the Recap forum about what one bride would do differently. Some of it seems so pointless or things I don't think I am even gonna need. So what standard things are you skipping/omitting?
I am not having a guestbook. I know who is gonna be there and really don't know what I would do with it afterward. I also did not do STDs. No offense to anyone who did them but I do not get the point. If you are anyone important, my mom prolly called you and raved about our wedding already. I am also skipping programs. I don't get the point of these either... come in, sit down, watch us get married, then go to the reception site. We weren't gonna do special cake cutters but FMIL bought them for us anyway for xmas. We were also gonna skip toasting glasses but we found the cutest mason-jar-like glasses so we might splurge on those. We are not doing a videographer. I don't have the money for that and I really don't know what I would do with a wedding video after the first month of "OMG LOOK AT IT!"
Our wedding is rather low key so I don't see a point to making a big deal outta some thing. But right now I have a bad attitude towards wedding stuff in generl so maybe I am just crabby.