Friday: Letter day

AshnRobo

Hello everyone! Good afternoon!  Sorry it took so long but here is today's post. Write openly and about whatever. Just make sure it is to the person specified! Have Fun!

Dear FFIL:

morenachica110

Oh, this'll be fun

Dear FFIL,

You are seriously, my most favorite person in FI's family (besides your sister of course =P). If it weren't for you, I might not have been able to stick it out and I really appreciate how welcomed you have always made me feel. FI's worried he's going to be bi-polar like you, but if he turns out anything like you, I'll be a lucky woman. You're fun, funny, caring, and a fantastic cook! (FI got this from you) Plus, you've made for some hillarious stories!

I just worry that you'll get super drunk at the reception and start picking through random people's hair like you did on your birthday. Please, please don't. And don't get to chummy with my dad. You guys will be a frickin storm if you're drunk together. Yikes. hahaha

Love you!!!

lbarr088

Dear FFIL:

  You are pretty awesome and I think we've always gotten along pretty great.  Thank you SO much for hosting the rehearsal dinner.  The place you chose is gorgeous and convenient for all of the guests.  I hope you will loosen up enough at our wedding to get out on the dance floor for more than just the couples dances

Love,

L

DirtyWater

Dear FFIL,
You are my favorite person in the family.  I'm just a little upset with you right now.  We really needed to keep the home equity line, and your dire need to take your name off of the house, has really put us in a tough position.  We no longer have any money to fall back on if anything is to go wrong.  We we'rent going to squander the money.  We have had it for 2 years and have only used it to re-pave the driveway.  I just don't understand why it couldn't have waited until next year to give us enough time to build up our savings again after the last house fiasco.  $45,000 is a lot to lose when you have nothing.

Thank you so much for your generous honeymoon gift.  It is amazing and I can only home your son doesn't back out of our European plans, because for us it will really be a once in a lifetime thing!

bridezillatobe2009

Dear FFIL:

Please stop insisting my parents come out to your house in the middle of no where, they don't like you and your bat sh*t crazy wife and meeting 2 times should be sufficent to prove I'm not an "orphan" like you have been calling me for the past 4 years.

Also thank you for spending $2000 fixing your daughters boyfriends quad/4 wheeler and then spending a sh*t ton of $$ fixing FBIL's POS antique car. You were too broke to contribute anything to our wedding but you had money to contribute to frivolous things when my parents are busting their hump helping us.

All I can say is that I'm glad you live almost 200km away and I don't have to see your hillbilly backwoods racist face very often.

BrooksNDunne

Mine isn't as sunny as the others

Dear FFIL,

How does it feel not being wanted to attend your own son's wedding? The drama you cause and the bridges you have burned makes us seriously not want to invite you and your crazy wife to the wedding. You have done nothing to support your son in his adult life, you never paid child support to his mom and you refuse to acknowledge me as the woman your son has chosen to marry. Introducing me as his "friend that he plays house with" only makes you look ridiculous and embarrasses me.  Stop publically betting on when he'll file for divorce. Come September, we may be sharing the same last name, but that does not make you my family.

E

CowgirlK39

Dear FFIL:

You are a great person, and you have helped mold FI into the great man that I love. After we announced our engagement, you made me feel 100% a part of the family by letting me take your black powder rifle out hunting, something your own sons don't get to do. This will forever be in my heart as one of the nicest things anyone has ever done.

However, I wish you would stand up to FMIL. We all know she is mentally ill, and when she gets angry about something ridiculous, you get angry and agree with her even when we all know she is wrong. I know you don't like to deal with the drama, but please, it is not fair for FI to get a screaming phone call about something we all know is totally stupid, simply because you feel the need to appease her. Also, we would greatly appreciate it if you keep FMIL in check during our wedding, We are prepared for the storm-outs and look-at-me sessions, but we will not deal with them on that day. We hope you step up and put her back in her place during these times.

Love you tons!

adktd2boots

Dear FFIL:

Thanks for pointing out I had on one pink sock and one blue sock yesterday.  In all fairness, it DID match the 2 cami's I had layered under my sweater.  It's time to do some laundry this weekend and those 2 socks were the easiest to find in the pile of unfolded laundry.

I love that you welcomed me in to your family!  You are a great, hardworking man and have taught your sons to be as well. However, I don't like that you've taught your sons that it's ok to shout "HUH?" or "WHAT?" from the other room.  I gets annoying to have to repeat things when someone really wasn't part of the conversation.

Your FDIL!

Soon2baW

Dear FFIL:

I might have something to say if you spoke English. You've been here 26 years, it's about time you learned.

Maybe one day we'll say more than just "Hi" to each other...

jessa1228

Dear FFIL:

Thank you for continuing to support FI the best you could during that whole debacle with your now ex-wife (that divorce was the best thing to happen to you, seriously). You have been such a positive influence in FI's life, and you've been an amazing role model. Thank you for teaching him everything he knows. Your son has grown into a wonderful gentleman, and I know it's because of you. I'm glad that you are living the life YOU want to now. I know that you are genuinely happy.

Love,

Jessa

PS: congrats on the weight loss! I know it doesn't seem much like now, but keep at it!

courtney3544

Dear FFIL,

I'm so sorry I didn't get a chance to know you better. We only met the one time for memere's funeral. But I want you to know you raised a good man, it took him a while to get here but he has your hard working convictions and he hopes he finally made you proud. It's hard to imagine that you won't be there at our wedding but I know you'll be there in spirit.

He misses you more than you could ever imagine.

RIP

Love,
The Future Mrs.E

MrsReynolds12

Dear FFIL, I don't quite understand our relationship. I still don't know if you like me but at this point who cares. I wish you and your son's relationship was better. I think if you actually treated him like an adult he would actually want to have a relationship with you. I also think if you didn't assume I was a snob because my parents have money we could actually be cool. Anywhoo I'm hoping in time we can all have better relationships I know how important it is to FI, FMIL and us for you to be in your future grands' lives. Regards, Your future DIL