I am American, and by this I mean that my family has been in the States since they were the Colonies (lol), and I am engaged to a first generation Mexican-American. I have already made the decision to convert to Catholicism. However, I have never been to a Catholic Wedding, let alone a Mexican wedding. I have asked his sister about this stuff, and she is very helpful.
The Problem: My best friend is a guy. I want him to be in the wedding party, as one of my Bride's Maids. And I don't know how FH's family, or the Church, will respond to this. I know if we were having a modern wedding, it wouldn't be a problem. But we want to have a wedding that is as traditional as possible. So, what do I do?