Is there a polite way to indicate to guests what the appropriate attire is for your wedding? If so, what would you say to indicate that it's a formal reception, but not necessarily cocktail, black tie or even black tie optional? Basically, I'd just like the guys to wear suits. Should this info go on the invite itself or the reception card or somewhere else entirely?
I'm afraid guests might not pick up on something as subtle as "formal reception to follow," or take cues from the formality of the invitation. My family is not big on dressing up, and I'm afraid if I don't specifically say something about what to wear, people will dress way too casually. Not that it's the end of the world, but it would be nice to keep it kind of formal and fancy. TIA!
Re: How do you indicate attire?
If someone doesn't know that they should probably wear a suit or a cocktail dress to the average wedding, or they should take a cue from the formality of the invitation, it is not your fault. It reflects on them. And most of them won't even be in your pictures. ;-)
The only time it would be okay to indicate it would be if the venue *requires* black tie (or white tie) attire.
If someone asks you (or your parents) what they should wear, you can say it's formal but you don't expect anyone to wear a tux! Just suits or cocktail dresses are fine!
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Dresses may be easier to take in than let out, but guest lists are not. -- kate51485
If you have a website, you can put a FAQ on there about proper attire.
We have a blurb about attire on our website, but it's as much to indicate that all other wedding weekend events (including the RD) are casual as that the wedding is formal.
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