SO I am really confused. First we are NOT having the traditional church wedding we are going to the Justice of Peace ( court house) and getting married. Then the next day we are having dinner in celebration with our family and friends. So I want to invite them and get a count of ppl so I know how big of a cake to order and where to have the dinner... getting married in April so I don't have a whole lot of time... can someone PLEASE help.... What should I do? Invites, e mails...?