So how involved are your grooms? Do they help you plan? So they go with you to meet vendors? What does he want in the wedding? Does he even have an opinion? How much do your guys do? I just want to know if I am alone here, my FI doesnt do much. He has said thre are certian things he wants, and bc its our wedding he gets the two things he told me he wanted, but he doesnt do anything to actually get them. He wanted a certian Church, he didnt call, I did. He didnt call to get his paperwork for the Church I did. He went to see two venues with me. I went on my own without him to see a lot of them, he told me to bring him to the few I liked the best. And I had to force that out of him. He didnt even go registar with me before our engagement party. I dont really care honestly we kinda have our things we both do and this would come under me anyway. He doesnt ever help me prepare when we do have a party so I didnt expect him to really do much, but I hear all these girls here talk about what their FI does and hear friends of mine talk about all the things there Fi's do and I was wondering am I the only one whos FI doesnt really help?