May 2012 Weddings
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Venting and need advice-PLEASE!

Good Morning ladies,

About a month ago my sister whom I'm not very close to had a bit of a falling out.  She had originally assumed she was going to be in the bridal party, since she's my sister so I just went with it.  After the falling out, I told her that she needs to decide if she wants to be a BM because I don't want any drama on our wedding day.  She told me that if that's the case then it would probably be best if she wasn't in the wedding party.

Since then, I have asked one of my besties to be in the wedding party, and I couldn't be happier with my choice.  I am getting a ton of guilt trips from my mom because she is "torn" between her two daughters.  I told my mom that its a day for my FI and I and I should be able to choose who I want to be in my wedding party but my mom keeps throwing out comments about how I am being selfish and I'm being a bridezilla.

All I want is to have a wonderful day and celebrate with friends and family who want to be part of our big day.

Any suggestions? Am I out of line?

Please help!
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