We are looking to have our ceremony and reception in the same place, and we have a very elegant, worldly theme, so we need a place with nice architecture. We will have no more than 40 people. Most venues hold 250 or more! We only need 5 tables! We like the idea of libraries and were interested in the Carnegie Center, but it is taken for our date. We would prefer to have freedom of caterer choice. Does anyone have any ideas?