I am being indecisive about the flowers. Everything will have to be DIY due to budget constraints, but should I go with real or fake? I found ribbon flowers from Martha Stewart ( http://www.marthastewartweddings.com/230981/ribbon-and-bow-projects/@center/272429/diy-weddings#104826 ) and I love the look, but then I lose on the pretty smelling flowers… to do the real flowers though we would have to make them the day before and keep them fresh which I am worried about, it would only be roses and baby’s breath, but I think I would be too worried about the flowers to relax… My sister told me I need to stop “micro managing” and let someone else handle the flowers… but who would I ask (Mom passed away) and who to trust?! Anyone who has or is DIYing the flowers if you could give me some tips of the pros and cons that you dealt with I would appreciate it!