We are busy planning for a wedding next June, so have some time to work on a registry... the thing is, we are very lucky to have lots of the things that we need already. My fiance and I have been living together for several years now, so the typical sheets/towels/dishware items aren't things we necessarily need. We've heard some suggestions to mention gift cards to home improvement stores (we're always renovating something in the house), big name stores (macy's, BBB, target, amazon, etc that we could put towards whatever we wanted), furniture stores (though i've never seen anyone register for furniture before...) and the ever-controversial honeymoon registry.
Any suggestions??
Re: What to Register for?
Create a small registry of "upgrade" items. Things like new flatware, updated/matching serving/entertaining pieces, kitchen electronics, upgraded towels/sheets, glassware for every type of drink imaginable, etc.
[QUOTE]We are busy planning for a wedding next June, so have some time to work on a registry... the thing is, we are very lucky to have lots of the things that we need already. My fiance and I have been living together for several years now, so the typical sheets/towels/dishware items aren't things we necessarily need. We've heard some suggestions to mention gift cards to home improvement stores (we're always renovating something in the house), big name stores (macy's, BBB, target, amazon, etc that we could put towards whatever we wanted), furniture stores (though i've never seen anyone register for furniture before...) and the ever-controversial honeymoon registry. Any suggestions??
Posted by michbrad3[/QUOTE]
Stay far away from honeymoon registries, and don't register for gift cards. Asking people for money is very very rude and tacky. Most couples live together so your situation is not unique. Register for upgrades. Upgrade your sheets/towels/decor. If you truly do no need anything, just spread by word of mouth that you don't want any gifts. FH and I are doing that. We have everything we need, and do not want gifts.
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[QUOTE]In Response to What to Register for? : Stay far away from honeymoon registries, and don't register for gift cards. Asking people for money is very very rude and tacky. Most couples live together so your situation is not unique. Register for upgrades. Upgrade your sheets/towels/decor. <strong> If you truly do no need anything, just spread by word of mouth that you don't want any gifts. FH and I are doing that. We have everything we need, and do not want gifts.
</strong>Posted by antibride2013[/QUOTE]
This may work in some circles, but it can be a risky tactic. I could see it working for a small wedding or a second wedding.
In my circle, it is popular to give a physical gift. If you don't register, you end up with a bunch of tschotchkes that aren't your taste.
Just the facts. The OP will have to know her crowd on that one.