A few months ago I told my friend that I wanted her to be my maid of honor. You should know that I have never been one to have one best friend but a lot of close friends. So it was hard to choose who to have as my MOH but this friend stuck around through some tough times for me and was the one who I thought knew me best. Since then I have not heard from her at all and we really have just seemed to drift apart. I have made plenty of efforts to talk to her and hang out with her but shes doesnt return the effort. Meanwhile, I have become closer with a few other people and feel that I would like them standing next to me more than her. Plus, she will be moving pretty far away within the next month or so. Would it be okay to tell her nevermind and that since we haven't been that close for awhile I have decided to choose someone else? I don't want to be a bad person or friend but I want someone who actually acts like a friend to be my MOH.