I am having trouble deciding over what to do about a potential bridesmaid. I already have asked my best friend to be my maid of honor and i have two other girls that I have yet to ask to be my bridesmaids.
However, I am concerned over one of these girls as being my bridesmaid. My wedding is taking place the day after her 21st birthday. She has mentioned that she plans to go out and get very drunk for her birthday. Since I am about to turn 22, I understand the want to go out and celebrate a birthday, especially your 21st. My concern is that if I ask her to be my bridesmaid that she will be very hungover or even possibly still drunk the next day for the wedding. I am unsure of whether to ask her to be a bridesmaid because of this issue. I think that she expects to be asked and feels that this is not a concern.
I would like to have her up there with me because she is a good friend of mine and i have a very small amount of potential bridesmaids, but i would not want her to if she is going to have trouble doing it. We will be having a traditional catholic wedding which will consist of a very long ceremony.
What do you think that I should do about this situation?