Since my parents are both deceased. Is it alright to ask my 2 older brothers to give me away? Another question, I had wanted them both in tuxedos, but one brother insists he has a new, beautififul black suit, that looks like a tuxedo. The other brother has no problem with getting a tux. How do I handle this.....I think it will look a bit awkard with one in a suit and one in a tuxedo. Can I maybe have the brother that's going to wear the tux mention to the suited brother?