I keep going back and forth between having a dj or a band. The band I'd be going with is far from traditional they play pop music with a rock edge and 80s/90s rock. I like the idea of having a rock band and it being almost show-like (my fiance and I are not into top 40s type music so it would be a way to control that). My concerns are that they don't really play any slow songs (father/daughter dance and mother/son dance are my concerns), I could play a few recorded versions, but is it worth spending the money on a band if my first 3 songs are going to be recorded versions? Do you think it's important to have slow songs in there? My concerns with a DJ is that it always seems no matter what you put on your do not play list there's always music you don't like or they play anyway.