What are SO's gripes about you?

QueerFemme

HobokenBride2012 said:

He says I don't clean the house enough. Sorry babe but I'm working 3 jobs right now and you're home sitting on your ass.

Omg. I think I would flip my shit. 

HobokensFury

cmgilpin said:

HobokenBride2012 said:

He says I don't clean the house enough. Sorry babe but I'm working 3 jobs right now and you're home sitting on your ass.

Omg. I think I would flip my shit. 

I understand he's still recovering from his surgery and can't do any heavy lifting but he can do some sprucing up and vacuuming.

QueerFemme

HobokenBride2012 said:

cmgilpin said:

HobokenBride2012 said:

He says I don't clean the house enough. Sorry babe but I'm working 3 jobs right now and you're home sitting on your ass.

Omg. I think I would flip my shit. 

I understand he's still recovering from his surgery and can't do any heavy lifting but he can do some sprucing up and vacuuming.

Right... and dishes and even laundry isn't heavy lifting...   and honestly, even if he was still recovering and didn't do anything at all, that would be fine.  Except he doesn't get to bitch about you not doing stuff.  The house would just need to stay messy for a while. 

OjitosVerdes

cmgilpin said:

I think my honey's main gripe about me is that I snore.  When I start, it seems to put all four dogs into a coma and then they start snoring also.  All five of us snoring is a little obnoxious.

Not a gripe about me, but we recently adopted a pug that snores like no other. More often than not, FI leaves me in the bed with the pug and our other two dogs, and goes to the living room to sleep on the couch. (The pug has awful separation anxiety). A couple nights ago the snoring got too bad for me, too. When I woke up, I was on the love seat at the other end of the bedroom, FI was on the sofa in the living room, and our three little a$$hole dogs, including the pug happily snoring away, were in our king bed. We really need to do something about this. 

QueerFemme

OjitosVerdes said:

cmgilpin said:

I think my honey's main gripe about me is that I snore.  When I start, it seems to put all four dogs into a coma and then they start snoring also.  All five of us snoring is a little obnoxious.

Not a gripe about me, but we recently adopted a pug that snores like no other. More often than not, FI leaves me in the bed with the pug and our other two dogs, and goes to the living room to sleep on the couch. (The pug has awful separation anxiety). A couple nights ago the snoring got too bad for me, too. When I woke up, I was on the love seat at the other end of the bedroom, FI was on the sofa in the living room, and our three little a$$hole dogs, including the pug happily snoring away, were in our king bed. We really need to do something about this. 

ha !!   yesterday morning, my partner got up to go to the bathroom, and came back to the room and all four dogs were in bed with me.  My partner looked at us and sighed, with this sad defeated sigh, and laid down on the dog bed.    I cracked up.

OjitosVerdes

ha !!   yesterday morning, my partner got up to go to the bathroom, and came back to the room and all four dogs were in bed with me.  My partner looked at us and sighed, with this sad defeated sigh, and laid down on the dog bed.    I cracked up.

That is pretty awesome! 

QueerFemme

OjitosVerdes said:

ha !!   yesterday morning, my partner got up to go to the bathroom, and came back to the room and all four dogs were in bed with me.  My partner looked at us and sighed, with this sad defeated sigh, and laid down on the dog bed.    I cracked up.

That is pretty awesome! 

I will say... the dog beds are huge (2 together is a little bigger than a twin size bed).  And they are memory foam. So, they are pretty comfy. 

lyndausvi

Ha- DH and I have been known to move to the sofa because of Chef D.  Not so much his snoring, he just takes up so much room.  And when he sleeps it's dead weight and you CAN NOT MOVE HIM.

lyndsay782

Summer2011Bride said:

That I criticize his driving. I don't think it's justified because he's not a good driver lol. Seriously he has almost gotten us into accidents more than once, so I'm OK if he gripes that I complain about his driving skills.

I am with you on that one.  My FH is a scary as heck driver.  He's never caused an actual accident, but when he is with this friends he thinks he's Vin Diesel or something.   AND IT'S TERRIFYING. He is overconfident that he's "safe" while I'm trying not to look and gripping onto the car for dear life. I love the man, hate his overly aggressive driving.

His biggest gripe is probably my little OCD issue about biting my nails, picking at scabs, or popping pimples.  I can't help it, really, and I've been doing it since the age of 3 (maybe longer, but thats as far back as I can remember someone telling me not to do it).  I just do it without thinking. he nails was the biggest one because he didn't want me to have ugly nails with my e-ring, so he now pays for the acrylic.  

erinlin25

It definitely used to be that I worked too much; but now that that is all behind us and we work together his only gripe is he gets jealous that my position at work allows me more chill time.  I can do my work but still be on the computer, watch a show while I work, etc.  He does not get those luxuries.  All it took was me being gone for a few days for him to really realized how much I really do work and get done for him, lol.