I will be ordering my invitation suite this weekend. I am having an adults only reception. I am abiding by the etiquette rules and I am not noting that on the invitation itself. I will also be putting the full names of all guests on the envelopes. I would like to be proactive and try to prevent people from adding extra folks - so I was going to use "X" number of seats have been reserved in your honor suggestion I have seen frequently on TK.
Now to my question....Has anyone had any issues with people trying to swap the named invitees for someone else because the reply card has a certain number on it for seats? Do you just respond, "I'm sorry for the confusion, but the invite was only for ____?" But then what do you say when they mention that a certain number of seats was reserved anyway so what's the big deal?
TIA!