Ughhh so ill start off with yesterdays frustration.
We got our first decline, MY GRANDMA! we have no issues, she loves my FI. Im getting married back home so she would come to the wedding. Its about 30 minutes north on the freeway from her. She hates driving on the freeway, but I thought that since im the first grandchild to get married, it'd be a big enough deal for her to muster up the courage to come.. despite her telling me she would. She changed her mind. Fi and I are soooo upset about it.
Todays frustration. and some background.
we finally decided to invite children, but drew the line at 2nd cousins. So we allowed 1st cousins and OOT guests to bring kids. Our kid list with 1st/2nd cousins and OOT kids was something crazy like 30. So without 2nd cousins, we were at about 15 give or take 2 or 3.
Well, I get an RSVP card back from one of my cousins, shes is the eldest cousin and reflects my crazy grandma. I think shes like 34 or something, has two kids 11+14? (I honestly couldnt tell you). I addressed my invite to her properly.. Just her and her husband. I get her card back, and it says Cousin+Husband +3 kids.. THREE?! you only have two children, who is this 3rd kid that also wasnt invited?!
Might I add, this is the same cousin that flipped out and had a fit when I had my MOH send her bridal shower invite to her moms house because at the time, I didnt have her address or any way to get in contact with her (shower invites went out earrrlyy).
Anyway, the point of this is to ask how to handle this situation with a crazy attention wanting cousin.