Ok so a little white church. should you decorate the outside at all? the stairs and handrails leading to the church? the trees outside?
I have seen the outside of some churches decorated for weddings. Is that too "partyish" i have seen it done tactfully BUT i am just not sure overall how YOU would feel if you saw a church decorated.
Its beautifully simple. but i almost want to add alittle something to add to the day
Re: decorating the outside of the church
My fiance and I talked about this. Our situation is perhaps a bit different, you didn't mention if you are leaving the chapel and going somewhere else. As he & I talked about it with the person who we booked with, we kept coming back to the fact that with daylight savings time, nothing with candles or lights outdoors would be apparent.
They also have "rules" because it's an historic site.
I am also thinking of garland or tulle wrapped and swagged on the handrails, with perhaps big bows or floral wreaths on the doors (because it's summer, the ushers have to make sure the doors stay closed due to the airconditioning).
I think your idea of shepherds hooks is great too, with pretty flowers. The trees outside the chapel are too far away for any impact to the whole idea of incorporating them into decorating.
Because we are staying on the grounds, there is a long white wooden fence that runs in front of the view of the chapel, that you see when you walk from the parking lot. I plan on having some tulle held on with black ribbons to tie it all together.