I realize have a bit before I have to send out invites. To stay ahead of the game I have been working on the design early, but I find myself in a bit of a conundrum. I want to word things appropriately and try to avoid hurt feelings. My FMIL has graciously offer to cover all of our baked goods and my hair appts. I know you should list the parents as hosts if they are contributing to the wedding. Is there a guideline as to how is contributed to "qualify" them as a host. My fiancee and I are having a small wedding about $4500. Unless something changes we plan on covering the venue, DJ, catering, and photographer. My mother has not done anything to lead me to think she will be helping with the wedding. This is not a problem at all. My concern is I don't want to come across wrong if I list my fiancee's parents as hosts and not my mom, and possible have hurt feelings or commit an etiquette boo boo. Can you ladies please help give me some direction. Thank you.