Here's my dilemma - My fiance and I are getting married next fall (Oct. 2014) and we will have an almost 12 year old at the time (not my fiance's biological son but the only "real" dad my son has ever known) and we are trying to figure out how to include our son into the wedding ceremony.
The catch is that our son has Asbergers (a form of Autism) and doesn't want to speak in front of the guests to recite vows or anything like that but wants to be part of the wedding.
My fiance and I, both think that 12 is too old to be a ring bearer and a little young for a groomsman - BUT - we want our son involved in the ceremony...we just don't know how to include him.
Has anyone had experienced this particular dilemma? Any suggestions or examples of how you handled it?