Hi,
I'm a bridesmaid in an out of town wedding this October. I just got my invite in the mail, and it's clearly only addressed to me, NO guest. I'm not in a relationship (currently) but I can't lie, my feelings are hurt. She also happened to mention that another bridesmaid's boyfriend IS coming, which honestly really stung even more. Obviously I'm happy for the other girl who has a BF and glad he gets to come, I don't begrudge her that at all. But it feels like an insult to me, like "Oh K is single, she doesn't get/need a date." (And I do assume she's happy to save the $$) The other bridesmaids are really nice girls, but I'm definitely not super tight with them. I have family in the area, I could have brought my cousin or someone (who I am close with). Etiquette-wise, she really doesn't have to extend a plus 1 to anyone who's single, right?? I DEFINITELY am not thinking of saying anything or causing drama. And going solo will be fine, I'm sure.
Just needed to vent a bit. She is being a demanding bride on the whole and it's stressing me out. It's totally in keeping w/ her personality, and I knew what I was getting into agreeing to be in the wedding. She is very sweet at heart, and I really am happy for her and her future husb. Just venting. Thanks!