I have been dating my fiancé for five years and we have a child together. On September 3, 2012, he finally popped the question! I immediately asked his sister, my best friend, to be my maid of honor. We are planning a end of summer/ early fall 2014 wedding.
Last weekend, she and her boyfriend of four months got engaged. I'm very happy for them but now she wants to have her wedding in June of 2014. She has asked me to be her maid of honor and, in the moment, I said yes.
Now, I'm starting to feel like she's trying to "steal my thunder." She's planning her wedding right before mine and I don't feel like either of us are going to be able to enjoy our duties as MOHs. Not only that but her family (my fiancé's) are all from out of town and I don't know if they will have the time or money to travel for two weddings in two months. I just feel like I'm getting shafted by her and I'm not sure how to handle it. I'm stressed and upset that my wedding isn't about me anymore. Everyone keeps making jokes about having "dual" showers, "dual" bachelorette parties and even "dual" weddings! I don't find them funny and it really hurts my feelings! HELP!!