I knew from the beginning that i did not want children at my wedding, i want it to be a fun and worry-free experience for my family and friends. I do not want to create a wedding website because many people i am inviting either do not have internet or access to a computer. But i have read that you do not announce "no children" or "adults only" on your invites. So fellow knotties, please help me because my invites are going out in the next month THANKS!
Re: How do i announce that their will be no children at my wedding?
I agree with Bubbles. Just make sure you are clear on the invitions about who IS invited. Don't worry about who isn't invited unless you get an RSVP that includes extra people. You can address that individually.
In an abundence of caution to make it even more clear about who is invited, you can also include specifics on your RSVP cards. Sometihing like:
We have reserved 2 seats in your honor.
Jane Doe _____ Attending ______Declines with regrets
John Doe _____ Attending ______Declines with regrets
Websites/blogs where our wedding has been featured:
http://www.dapperq.com/2013/11/a-very-dapper-wedding/
http://www.onabicyclebuiltfortwo.com/2013/10/wedding-christina-g.html
http://4realequalityweddings.com/2014/05/16/g-christina/
Another option is on the RSVP to have "2 seats have been reserved in your honor" and then, if you're having meal choices, ask them to initial/write their name by their choice. It won't work in every case (we had some people that just put check marks and not names), but on a lot of the RSVP cards you'll be able to see if anyone wrote their kid's names down so you can nip it in the bud. Also seeing the specific meal choice needing to be picked might deter people from just showing up with kids since it makes them realize "only the people on this invite are going to get food."
But actually putting their names on the RSVP for them is probably the most fool proof route if possible.
As for kiddos, I'd make sure you have the phone numbers of your guests just in case you have to call to confirm the invited parties. Address your invites to just the people invited and sit back and watch the sometimes hilarious rsvps come in.
I would not use the line "We don't want kids at the wedding," or "We just want people to have fun and let loose," as it could rub people the wrong way and/or open up the floor for argument.