I attended a wedding with my family, and my aunt kept discussing how "rude" the dinner options are, and how proper etiquette dictates that you should have a choice that everyone will like. My cousin offered sirloin with a mushroom sauce, mashed potatoes and asparagus, or the vegetarian option, eggplant lasagna. I do think the choices were a little distinct, but there was rolls, salad with choice of dressing and soup. My aunt also talked about how rude it was that there were no apps or hor d'vours. The reception started at 5 (4:00 ceremony 10 minutes away) and by 5:30 they started serving bread and we had dinner by 6. Is there such thing as "rude" dinner options? It's a wedding, not Burger King, right?