Getting in Shape
Who LOVES working out and the gym?
Who loves to work out and go to the gym? I do.
i love having my gym time, its like my ME time, i used to go at least 6 days a week, but normally 7, 2 hours at a time minimum. I loved it.
But the honey doesnt like me going to the gym alone, says guys are weird at the gym. my gym has 2 sections, under 18, and 18+, i work out on the 18+ side because thats where all the older people are, normally 30+ because the better weights are on the other side, thats where more 20 something men hang out and i do agree they are very odd there, and they stare at you while youre working out and i hate how its set up. so i like the other side where theres classes, and old people that dont care what youre doing, how old you are, or stare at you.
so a few months back me, my brother, and my fiance all joined this other gym, it was really cool, i loved it, it had 24/7 access, and key card entry so if you werent a member you couldnt get in, and you never had to worry about making it before they closed cause you could go in at 1am if you wanted. i loved getting my workout in i had it all dialed in with a little spot set up in a corner for yoga and stretching. they stopped wanting to go because it got too crowded in the weights area, i didnt think so anytime i was in there it was fine and all the stuff i like to do was always open. so they stopped wanting to go so i couldnt go, then we all got rid of the membership.
i tried the home gym thing, got some good stuff, and took my dads old equipment, but its really not the same, i like the gym energy as in the gym and i totally miss it i have no motivation to go outside to workout. and its like going to the gym i think i already drove all the way here so i need to finish my workout to make it worth the gas, having it at home i can just say im just going to take a little break and then i never make it back outside.
any advice on trying to convince the honey to be more comfortable with me hitting the gym alone? my cousin has a membership and he wouldnt mind me going with her, but shes never available and doesnt do the same things as i do and i want to stay for 2 hours and shes done in 20 minutes and she doesnt have her own car so it just doesnt work out to go together.