Hello everyone...first time on the board. I could use input on choosing who will be my MOH and BMs. My daughter is 18....would it be strange to have her as my MOH? Second questions: My sister-in-law (who is 55) was my MOH at my first wedding....would it be strange to have her as a BM in the wedding given her age? Of course I will be 46 when we have the wedding, so.... We are very close and she is already jumping in with both feet to plan with me. I would actually rather have my niece (she is 25) be a BM....maybe she would be happy with that and not feel "left out" since her daughter is in it instead?