10/10 here! Looking for advice. I am definitely a vintage, DIY kind of Bride. I have always had a vision of a backyard/ rustic wedding, mason jars and all.My groom comes from a huge family and and some how our dream of a quaint little wedding has gone out the window. We now have a 24 person wedding party, over 200 guests, and a venue with a grand ballroom with huge chandeliers! How do I keep the romance and focus on us and why we are really there!? Help!