I don't know about you but it seems that every guy I have ever dated there has always been that one friend of theirs I don't like. The more I like the guy the less I end up getting along with this one friend....
Well now I am engaged and this one friend is a DOOZY! Worst part is, its a girl and she is just mean.
So my FH and this girl have been friend for like 6 years. The first time she met me ( for 5 min, when I was loopy on meds because I broke my leg) 4 years ago she told my fh she didn't like me. He kept us seperated until she got used to the fact that he was in a relationship. I tried being friends with her because she had started dating another close friend of my FH and they hung out together all the time, so I had tried to make lemonade out of lemons. When she had put a post on her FB about her friends ditching her on her BDay I had invited her over made her and her BF dinner and made her a cheesecake which I found out was her fav through my FH and got her some games (she loves board games). They came over and she threw like 4 temper tantrums, made a comment about what I was eating and then asked for the reciepts for one of the gifts and then openly said she was regifting the other. Then left without a thank you. This was annoying but I was like what evs... if I was in her other friend's shoes I would have ditched her too if I knew she was going to behave like that.
Then several weeks later she posted a picture of her and my fiance as her profile pic from before he and I were together. It was like her kissing his cheek and being all lovey and close. I had asked her to take it down nicely- I still had the original messages if anyone is interested... and she ignored me. When he asked her to take it down she called me all sorts of name and blocked us both on FB.
Now I unfortunately still work with this girl, not directly but in the same building, we see each other on occasion. The first time she saw me after this all happend she was like "Hey!! How are you? OMG!!!" I nodded my head to acknowledge her but nothing more so she called me a nasty name starting with a C and kept walking. When I got home I sent her a message politely letting her know that I had tried hard for years to be nice and at least civil for my FH sake and she was rude to me every time the last time resulting in the blow up fight. I told her I would be civil in at work or in public but wouldn't go out of my way to be friends with her anymore. She responded with calling me another name and tried to convince me that my FH had cheated on me with her.... which he would never do. He is no longer friends with her, wants nothing to do with her... Problem is, she is dating one of the groomsman.
The groomsman didn't do anything wrong, its not fair to tell him he can't bring a date, nor would it be polite to say you can bring a date..just not her. I just don't want to see her on my wedding day. I am afraid of the fits she will throw the horrible things she would say to my family just to be awful. Do we say none of the bridal party gets to bring a date because of this??
Please tell me if I am being unreasonable here... she has caused so much anxiety in my relationship and tension between her boyfriend and I too. Its been awful. Please advice!