I am having a very simple civil cermony, afternoon in nyc in oct. trying to decide between a a few different dresses. these two pictured here are bit opposite I know - black and white. Any votes either direction? My normal style definitely leans more the dark one, but I kind of like the silvery one also. I am 43 and have a pretty simple/classic style. Any votes either direction? or neither? if you are having a city hall wedding, what are you wearing?